“Good fences make good neighbors,” according to the poet Robert
Frost, but in fact, most Americans are happy with their neighbors —
fence or no fence.
A recent survey by the real estate classified ads website Trulia found that two-thirds of all Americans like their neighbors. And familiarity breeds contentment: 80 percent of people who know their neighbors’ names generally like them.
A close look at the numbers also shows a significant variance between
homeowners and renters. Homeowners are more likely than renters to be
agreeable to their neighbors – 74 percent versus 58 percent — and to
know their neighbors’ names: 61 percent versus 39 percent.
Here in the West we are the least likely to know our neighbors’ names
— 49 percent, compared with 51 percent for residents in the Northeast
and South, and 60 percent in the Midwest — but we’re not unfriendly. In
fact, residents in the 13 Western states rank the highest for liking
their neighbors: 72 percent, compared with 67 percent in the Northeast
and Midwest, and 65 percent in the South.
Comparing suburban residents with city dwellers, folks in the suburbs
are much more likely to know their neighbors’ names — 54 percent versus
46 percent — but only slightly more friendly: 68 percent versus 65
percent.
However, in most cases, suburban residents tend to be choosier about
their neighbors than their city-based counterparts. For instance, while
38 percent of suburbanites feel that it is important that their
neighbors are homeowners, only 29 percent of city dwellers express the
same concern. And while 34 percent of suburban residents would prefer
that their neighbors speak the same language, just 27 percent of urban
residents concur.
Only 5 percent or respondents say they actively dislike their
neighbors, and 61 percent say they would resolve a disagreement by
trying to know a neighbor. But watch out for the 4 percent who claim
they would get into a fight or an argument!
(Photo: Flickr/Rbotman01)